Thursday, October 30, 2008

Cathy is back from sunny Florida



Have you ever heard of Siesta Key Beach in Sarasota Florida? No? The kind residents of Siesta Key would like to keep it that way! Siesta is a little slice of heaven if you love the beach like I do!


One morning as we walked on the white sand beach two fishermen flagged us over to watch as several dolphins jumped out of the water to snag the fish they were catching and releasing, it was awesome!







The sunset was picture perfect as big birds (pelicans maybe) flew across the magnificent sight. Wow

Eleven of my bestest pals in the resale industry met at this little resort called "the Beach Place" 5 adorable cottages painted Florida colors: turquoise, yellow and pink, complete with our own personal pool, and tikki bar!





Granted it was off season for Florida, but the value of these accomodations was awesome. Talk to Leslie, and tell her the resalers sent you if you want to enjoy this little gem yourself! http://www.siestakeybeachplace.com/





For a whole week we talked shop 24/7. Great ideas were shared and as always, I learned how to make the shop even better.





To all my best friends who listen to my issues, offer solutions, and share in my successes, I love you all dearly!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

National Domestic Abuse Awareness month

October is national Domestic Abuse Awareness month.

Statistics say that 1 in 3 girls who have been in a serious relationship have either been hurt physically or have been concerened about getting physically hurt by their boyfriend. Wow.

Check out this website, www.loveisrespect.com
this page: http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/are-you-being-abused.html answers the question, "are you being abused".

Did you know that when your boyfriend/girlfriend tries to control where you go and who you can hang out with, that is a sign of an abuser?

Abuse isn't just getting punched in the eye, it's when someone doesn't treat you right, yelling, controlling, putting you down, grabbing your arm, not letting you leave a room or even cheating on you continually.

If you are in a relationship and your boyfriend/girlfriend is abusive to you, and you are afraid to break up with them, talk to a trusted adult about your situation. Search some websites for information on how to deal with your situation. Don't try and go it alone.

Most importantly realize that none of this is your fault. No one should hit you, or treat you badly no matter what.

Love yourself, get help, get out.